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As a relative newcomer to the blogging world, I’ve quickly realized there’s some seriously inspiring and mind-blowing stuff out there. I have already discovered so many unique, creative, and intelligent writers in the field of personal development, and I know I’ve just scratched the surface. In fact, there is an UNLIMITED AMOUNT OF KNOWLEDGE available.
“Scientiae pars est quaedam nescire.” - Erasmus
(Not to know certain things is a part of knowledge)
Erasmus, the mighty scholar and theologian, may have been on to something … is it possible that “not to know certain things is a part of knowledge”? Is there a point where we must no longer perpetually dissect our emotions, decisions, and levels of consciousness, and instead accept that “not knowing” is sometimes knowledge enough?
I believe personal growth is not only about ascending to more ethereal realms of consciousness, but it’s also about pursuing more elementary foundational truths. I know, elementary just doesn’t sound sexy, but it’s true. A blog title like “143,029 Simple Ways to Instantly Manifest a Life of Productivity & Wealth” may be enticing, but does it have staying power?
“Give the mind two seconds alone and it thinks it’s Pythagoras.” - Mystic & Poet, Annie Dillard
So many people share their thoughts like a “water faucet” … you know, just turn it on and stuff starts pouring out. Do you know anyone like that? The Sunday afternoon armchair quarterback? The Monday morning co-worker that always knows what management “should be doing”?
I have found myself in this “faucet” mentality while writing. For some reason, I impose upon myself an internal pressure comparing my thoughts and posts to surrounding writers, and in competitive form, I cannot accept that sometimes I just don’t know. I find myself cramming down more knowledge (the faster the better), bearing down, and ultimately regurgitating the information I’ve consumed as if I’m an expert. Twist the faucet, knowledge pours out.
I now challenge myself to treat my thoughts less like a “faucet” and more like a “furnace”. True wisdom more often than not follows care, intentionality, and patience. Wisdom, like a furnace, takes many logs to get the fire smoldering, but once a foundation of coals has formed, heat … truth … remains. And THEN when the furnace is opened, it can be dispersed freely and abundantly.
So next time you believe you’ve got it all figured out, don’t just turn on the “faucet”. Your discipline and self-resolve may leave you saying, “I DON’T KNOW”, but be patient, seek fundamental truths, allow your thoughts to form, and then out of that discernment, let your “furnace” burn.
Tags: ideas, knowledge, personal development, productivity, wisdom
I recently spent the weekend with my 4 year old twin nephews, and let me say, you do not rest with them around! From swimming to ice cream sundaes to Little Einsteins videos to musical parades around the house, they were non-stop excitement. And as our exhausting summer weekend came to an end, one of these little tots best summed it up, proudly exclaiming, “Bye now! Thanks for Christmas!”
It got me thinking about how our own energy/passion levels evolve over the years. As children, we’re not afraid to make our emotions known, but as we grow older, we’re trained to bottle up any excitement in fear that people might “read our hand”, and potentially even use this knowledge to their advantage. We’ve also experienced the enormous disappointment when our “Christmas” never comes.
Granted, the ability to temper our emotions has its merit, but we often mistake controlled emotion with hiding our excitement and passion altogether.
Take the act of haggling prices at a car dealership, for example. We’ve been trained to remain stoic and militant during “negotiations”, for any passion exhibited over those several hours might represent weakness … and thus, a higher price.
Is it possible, however, that your complete lack of enthusiasm in the process could work against you? Consider for a moment the alternative. What would happen if you walked up to the salesman and said,
“I’ve been passionately saving up for this beautiful car for nine months, and know everything there is to know about it, including the dealer’s cost. I am committed to driving out of here today in this new car, but I need your help in assuring that I spend no more than $XX,XXX, and that I can be out on the road in one hour. Can I have your commitment that you’ll do everything you can to make this a win-win for both of us?”
Would you at least have his attention?
I’m not necessarily recommending this for your next car purchase, rather I am only offering a challenge to consider areas of life where we conceal our emotions at our own expense. Do my co-workers only know me as rational, sensible, and … boring? What’s the last thing they can remember me truly getting excited over? When was the last time I did something fun and unpredictable for a family member?
“Don’t be boring. Don’t ever be predictable.” - Harvey Mackay
Remember, people don’t want to follow robots. So, while it’s often proper to control your behavior, don’t be afraid to show a little emotion. Not only will your passion breed more passion, it will also breed loyalty … and those you lead will appreciate you for it.
Tags: emotion, ideas, leadership, passion, personal development
